Father to be

John - posted on 04/18/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




OK so my ex is pregnant...she says about 5 months but she won't go to the Dr ..we split cause I got everything mails saying she was cheating..and I got pics she sent to someone..any how she is suppose to be 5 or so months pregnant but won't go to the Dr. .she wants me to buy all baby stuff for her house before the baby is born..she tells me it's a girl..yet has not been to the Dr ..so she says..she is huge..tells me I can't be in the baby's life..unless I prove myself by buying all things needed before the baby is born...sounds a little weird to me..I told her I want a dna test when baby is born..says I won't let baby around you unless you prove ur self and buy all this stuff and bring to her house..I got over 2000 in baby stuff ..but don't want to give to her cause 1 if baby is not mine..and 2 then I have to buy again for my house..and I wronge??? Need some advice here..thanks...


Jodi - posted on 04/18/2014




Tell her to keep receipts and when the DNA test AFTER the baby is born shows that you are the father, you will pay HALF the cost of the items she bought that were necessary for the baby (necessary doesn't mean "want").

You are well within your rights to request a DNA test if you suspect she has been cheating, and you are not required to pay for anything at this point.

Once the DNA test is done, IF it shows you are the baby's father, you have every right to a relationship with this child. At this point, talk to a lawyer.

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