Feel upset .....what should I do

Amber - posted on 11/02/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




Hie, I am mother of 3.3 months old baby and this is my first child. We have love cum arranged marriage, we are more of a friends than a husband wife. I love my child, she is my life. But for the past few weeks I am not feeling good,I am feeling left alone and feel that my husband become good father and completely forgotten me. Most of the time he is busy in work , the little time he got he spent with my angel.

Also most of the time I am confined to my house, not going out, not even to shopping. Whenever I asked him to go out, he gets tired or my mood gets upset. I thought of joining some club or build my own space but felt that is not the solutions it will drive both of us farther away, I didn't discuss all these with my husband as I don't want to hurt him or make him feel guilty. He is a good human being with good moral. Pls advice ladies as everyday is becoming challenge for me.


Rachel - posted on 11/02/2012




He's your husband and in my opinion, you should be able to talk to him about anything and everything that has to do with how you're feeling. Especially about your marriage.

Talk to him. Communication is extremely important.

Faye - posted on 11/02/2012




Hire a sitter for the baby and ask hubby to go with you for a bit. If he does not want to go (too tired) then go on your own, even if it is to the library for a few hours. It sounds like you need some adult conversation. You must take care of you!

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