fionce working 2000 miles away for 21 days and home for 5 days

Rachel Kimberlee - posted on 01/08/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




We have 3 children,
savannah 8, Xavier 5, and Layla 17 mth.
I miss him so much when he is away, but when he comes home we bicker every single day.
When he is gone I am mom and dad, I have no friends, and no family in the area to help me cope and learn how to cope with him being gone and coming home.
He is honest, faithful, we love eachother very much, but when he comes home I push him away and put a wall of protection up.


Jodi - posted on 01/08/2014




Have you tried counselling? I have a tendency to put up a wall at times I know someone is going to be removed from my life for a period of time (even if only a few days). It is a form of defence mechanism in order to minimise the hurt/upset to yourself. It is often a sign of insecurity. Have you ever sought counselling for your tendency to push him away? I think this is really important - counselling really helped me.

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