Has he hurt my toddler?

Emma - posted on 01/02/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )




Hi, my daughter is 2 and i had been with my ex partner for 10 months. He didnt live with us, but due to having two other kids, 13 & 10, with no suport, he was around my kids alot. My toddler took to him no problem, she is very outgoing and confident, but after about 2 months would scream.and shake uncontrolably when he pulled up in the car. If he came near her she would scream hysterically and would not tolerate him anywhere near her. If he picked her up she either screamed or froze? I found it very difficult to handle but i stopped him coming round and my daughter settled down. He gradually started coming round again and the same things happened.. I asked my daughter what was wrong in a way she could understand, and she first of all showed me that he pulled her hair, and as her speech developed, rhen told me that this is what he done. I ended it afterr confronting him and he called my 2 yr old a liar!! He is now begging to get back together but it just feels wrong, anyone been in a similar situation that could offer some advice?
Thanks in advance. :-)

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