He lied to me

Zandile - posted on 12/26/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )




My husband lied to me , I allowed him to go and visit his daughter from the previous marriage he told me he not going inside the flat he meets with the child at the mall after sometime the mother of the child called me and told me she is was pregnant I thought it was a joke when I asked my husband he told me its a lie if she`s indeed pregnant its not his , the child is born but he didn't tell me I had about the woman when I asked him he said he's waiting to do DNA first then we can talk about the child because she forced him to have sex he is not sure that if she was pregnant already. PLEASE ADVISE I AM HURTING I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I love him so much but he keeps on hurting me .


Gena - posted on 12/27/2013




Thats the most stupid excuse ever,that she forced him to have sex with her! You deserve better then a man that lies and comes up with such silly excuse.I would also tell him to leave if that was my husband.It may be hard for you because you love him,but honostly you shouldnt have to put up with such a man.Good luck and i hope you can get over him.

Mary - posted on 12/27/2013




A guy like that isn't worth it. Why would he tell you it's a lie n then say waiting on the DNA results if it's not his why is he taking the test in the first place. You need to move on he isn't the only guy in this world n maybe it just wasent ment to be. He did it once n he will do it again I know it hurts but you gotta do it for yourself bcuz you know your worth more the that.

Jodi - posted on 12/26/2013




He really thinks you are stupid enough to believe that he was forced inside the flat and forced into having sex? He must think you are incredibly gullible. That's really disrespectful of him - not just to cheat on you but to believe you are also that stupid as to believe his story. How hard can your front door hit him in the ass on his way out with his things? Because that's where he'd be going if he were my husband. He wouldn't even get a chance to look back.


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