He walked out again

Britney - posted on 04/19/2017 ( 4 moms have responded )




Hello everyone I need some advice and support. I am going through a really hard time. My son's father who I have been with for 6 years has left us. I found out he had face timed some girl and when she asked him about me, he denied me and said we hadn't been together in months. I told her we lived together and she was willing to tell confront him. She said nothing happened between them that he called her randomly. I called his job and asked him, and he said he was "testing" Me to see if I would check up on him since his phone is under my name. He was angry that I called his job and was just disregarding the fact that he had cheated. I kept asking for an explanation and he said well it's over I'm going to get my stuff and leave. And he did, it's week 2 and he has showed no remorse or nothing. He lives with his mom now and hasn't even asked to see his son. This is the 4th time he walks out, but he had promised me he would never leave again. He would tell me how much he loved me and missed me all the time then from one day to another he just left. I'm depressed and he just seems to be going on with his life like nothing. I feel lost.😢


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Sarah - posted on 04/20/2017




I agree, find some support for yourself and move on. I get it can be hard to leave what is familiar, but like Michelle says- do you want your child to think this is how relationships are supposed to work?

Michelle - posted on 04/20/2017




You need to move on. He has shown that he doesn't want a committed relationship. You have to stop taking him back.
I would suggest some counseling to help you realize that you can do things on your own without a man.
It's also not good for your son to have his Father in and out of your life. You are teaching your son that he can treat women however he wants and they will take him back.

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