Help!!!!! Need searious advice

Bella - posted on 06/08/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Me and the father of my child were engaged and our daughter is almost one. We are both teen parents and he was doing really good. Then one day I asked him to clean up after himself, and he literally stood up, packed his crap and left. He then moved in with his brothers and his dad, he made an online dating profile and starting screwing some girl off there and admitted it . They've been 'seeing' eachother for three weeks now and he insists that my daughter is going to meet the hoe weather I like it or not. I will never comprehend nor understand how someone could do something like this to me.. And there child. I refuse to let him take my daughter out of my house and he has seen her for an hour in the last three weeks. I am so hurt, and so bitter and so angry at him and it's getting in the way of proper parenting . He always calls me a horrible person and stuff but I don't know what to do anymore. This guy went behind my back and screwed this girl I grew up with and was at OUR baby shower. And yet I forgave him. I know me and my daughter deserve better, but my heart says one thing and my head says another. I just need some advice :(


Amy - posted on 06/08/2013




Pick yourself up and let go of him. He clearly didn't care as much for you as you did him. With that being said he still has every right to see his daughter and unfortunately you don't have the right to dictate that he can only see her at your house, you are interfering with his relationship with his daughter and will be frowned on by the courts.

You should file for custody and child support so that way you have a visitation schedule set up.

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