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Hi to all you moms out there my name is Laura and I REALLY NEED HELP SAVING MY TWO TENNAGE GIRLS. They just turned 15 and 14 they live i Fla and and I am in Pa .We were divorced in 20008 He made sure he got everything and literally tru me out on the street the girls were 8and 9 at the time.He was VERY ABUSIVE to me in every sense of the word. The divorce gives us what Fla calls shared parental responsibility. They live with him but i have visitation which he has NEVER given me nor offered to bring the girls to me.I am to have telephonic communication at ALL times he denies me that. We are supposed to make ANY decisions concering their medical treatment and any school info stuff like that is to be made jointly he is not doung that He has his new wife by the way is 26 and he is 50 on all paperwork concerning MY GIRLS.She tells me that I am not allowed to talk to or see them ever again that i suck as a mother and that the girls hate me and want nothing to do with me. WELL I FOUND OUT THAT IS ALL A LIE i found out tru finally my youngest sent me a text this Oct and then my oldest finally got a hold of me on Oct 29 for the the first time in almost 4yrs.She told me that they were telling her that I wanted nothing to do with her or her sister and i was also told that they didnt even know that i was luving in Pa. Now just this past week both of my girls have told me that their stepmom is telling my oldest that she has no freinds that she is worthless that she is a monster and she is stupid i found from her that the week before she stabbed herself with a pen .She is extremely depressed and talks about killing herself.My youngest told me that her stepmom took her ipad from smashed ans told her she has no freinds and that she's stupid and threatens to punch her in the head and slaps her .she also told her she is not getting another ipad she doesn't need one but yet they use them in school so her fteiend lets her use hers thats the only way i can talj to her is when she is in school .The girls are not allowed to go anywhere they are kept in the house my oldest said that the other day she was at the dr and she was talking on her kindle to a freind and her stepmom saw my name got mad so she took the kundle away from her when the got home her own dad grabbed her by her hair threatened to punch her in the face and she grabbed his arm scratched him called him an asshole and walked off he and my yoyngest had to go look fir her my yoyngest told me that that same day their stepmom told them both that they would never see that woman again and that they are not allowed to ever talk to me again .I AM TERRIFIED FOR THEM they said they both want to be with me and they are afraid to be there .but I dont know what to do where to start .I DO NOT want CPS or DCF involved cause they LIE BIGTIME and if they get invoved i will NEVER see my girls again .I cant afford an attorney but they are crying out for help I am so worried i cant even sleep and the weekends are rhe worst because then I have no contact at all wirh them If anyone has any ideas plaese let me know I want to get them out of there ASAP I dont even know if i have the right legally to remove them bcause I have proof of the abuse and take them up here with me and file for emergency temporary custody or even full custody.Please help me with this any info would be VERY much appreciated Thankyou Laura


Dove - posted on 11/07/2015




You need to get a lawyer. Isn't the the advice you were given the last time you posted?

I'm sorry for what you have been going through, but if this has been going on since 2008 and you have not been in court constantly fighting for them since then... it's not likely to look good on you for wanting to finally change the situation a whole 7 years later out of the blue... There is NO legitimate excuse for the lack of actions you have taken all this time.

You need to contact the police or CPS or her school counselor and get your kids checked out. Tell your girls that they MUST talk to the authorities and be 100% honest w/ them in order to get the help they need. If your daughter tells the authorities that she wants to kill herself they can keep her in the hospital on a psych watch for up to 72 hours... that might be enough time to get the ball rolling here, but you HAVE to act... and act now.

If you don't want to get the authorities involved... there is nothing you can do other than sit in a corner and keep crying about the situation that you put your children in and are unwilling to change. Be a mom and fight for them. Now!

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