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Mariela - posted on 05/10/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )




So my boyfriends mothers doesnt like me , and she likes my boyfriend ex girlfriend . So every party they make she has to go and i hate her so mucch i dont know what to do icursed him out and he doesnt understans me i dont know what to do


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Michelle - posted on 05/10/2014




I'm with Jodi. She is his ex and if you are jealous of her then this relationship will always be strained.
My Mum's current husband (#3) was always thinking my parents were having an affair when they spoke to each other (about children). He is finally better now since my Dad lives on the other side of the world.
It's horrible to have someone jealous of your ex. My ex comes over to my place for dinner when it's one of his children's birthdays, we get invited to his place often.
You need accept that he has a past that didn't involve you and that he is now with you.

Jodi - posted on 05/10/2014




How do you know she doesn't like you? Just because she invites the ex girlfriend to things? Because that doesn't mean she doesn't like you. There is nothing wrong with a mother still having a relationship with the ex girlfriend. Heck, BOTH of my husband's exes turned up to his dad's 80th birthday because I invited them - they also both regularly visit with my inlaws. I don't care. I'm the one he is married to.

With regard to cursing him out over it....yeah, that's really going to get it done. I certainly don't recommend that as a way of discussing this with him.

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