Hey girls I'm in need of advice

Lynn - posted on 12/21/2018 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hey lady's I'm Lynn I'm 36 and a single mother of 2 a boy and girl I've been having a lot of trouble with my son lately he's 13 and just trying to figure things out I guess but I'm on edge daily I've caught him repeatedly at the feet of my bed while I'm asleep and when I wake up the covers are thrown just from my legs up and my feet are sometimes "wet" I've asked him what he was doing and he said he's scared of the dark still and he use to sleep at the foot of my bed when he was young and "afraid" of the dark but now I'm just beginning to learn that his fetish has been having him "scared" of the dark I really don't know what to do I've put cameras up in my room and his hallway and sisters room and he's on tape at his aunt's house doin God knows what me and my sister his aunt have talked about it but idk how to approach him at all I mean he's on tape caught red handed in my bed with my dirty laundry and all my heels pleasuring himself I'm disgusted and ashamed i feel like I've failed as a mother and father since I play as the two together and I just don't know what to do I mean he's licking my feet while I'll sleep and in my dirty clothes when I'm gone and I'm fed up I feel violated and I just want to be able to talk to him and not lose him in anyway I love him more than anything I just don't know how he's so "sick" and infatuated with me I mean growing up my brother use to be a perv but that was with his girlfriends and not me or my mother should I just come out and ask him why or what do I do??? I'm hiding in my own home please someone help us

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Olivia - posted on 12/23/2018

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I think you both need to see a professional to council you in finding a way to direct his desires in a healthy direction. I wouldn't call your son "sick", just different than you, and in need of strategies (maybe fewer cameras? Panties and shoes of his own?). You shouldn't have to feel afraid. Tell him to keep it in his own room, leave your panties alone, and get some help for both of you. Good Luck Lynn.

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Olivia - posted on 01/01/2019

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That's great Lynn! Keep the chats with your son going, and with your daughter as well. Having an understanding with your son is a good step. I have a 13 year old son as well, and it does get challenging, doesn't it? Message me if you feel like venting.

Lynn - posted on 12/27/2018

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Thank you Olivia we've been looking for professional help and me and my son did have a few chats about it in private and we have a understanding I would say I just didnt think it was as deep as it was

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