How do I deal with my ex's girlfriend ?

Cassi - posted on 08/09/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )




My son moved away with my ex about 1 year ago, I get him for holidays and also for the summers. My ex's fiance has herself as "mommy" in my sons phone and also in his photo album on the pictures of her it says "my mommy". She is also trying to "mother" him while he is with me. I have tried to talk to her about all this and she just keeps saying she is his mom too......I am so frustrated!!!!


Charlie - posted on 08/09/2011




Im not really understanding what the issue is , she is his mummy too is she not ? He is lucky enough to have two mummys to love him so why not share the title ?

I can understand when he is with you you want to have a hand in the "mothering" of him but understand that since he is with her majority of the time that she might not be able to help it ...all you can do is ask she let you have your time with him for the whole mummy thing , you are both mums it really isnt something worth stressing about.

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