How do I get my 21 month old to stay in bed in the morning?

Deidre - posted on 07/05/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )




I have been battling it out with my little girl for about 3 weeks now to get her to stay in bed. She has been waking up at 4:30am and ready to start the day. I have tried everything I can think of and I need help. I have had no sleep in 3 months due to a 6 month old with reflux and now this. PLEASE HELP!


Amanda - posted on 07/06/2012




My kids are abit older than yours, 4 and 2, but I tell them every night when I put them to bed that I will see them in the morning and they are to stay in their bed until the sun comes up.
Both went through a phase of waking up at 4.30am and wanting to play.

I have told them since they were both tiny they need to stay in their rooms, both since before they were 2 and they have both understood what I have told them.

I think you can buy a night light/clock thing that glows or turns off at time you have set so she knows when she is allowed to get up.


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Gwen - posted on 07/06/2012




You could also try adjusting her nap or bedtime schedule. Maybe it's time to shorten or shift nap time so she is getting more of her sleep at night.

Deidre - posted on 07/05/2012




Thank you for your help. It's not quite that easy to reason with her due to her age. We had to transfer her to a bed as our 6 month old needed the crib. But what I can't figure out is that she has been in her bed for about 4 months now, so maybe it's a stage? She has never done this before.

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