how do i kill insucuirty

Geecayetano - posted on 10/09/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




recently my bf revealed to me he has a daughter whom is 18 months now. his baby is from a pass fling. she didnt tell him she was pregnant till 8 months. she claimed she didnt know she was pregnant up untill 8 months. this caused him to have hate towards her because when they stop talking he went along his way got into another relationship (the one before me) . a little after ending things with his ex is when he found out about his ex fling being pregnant meaning he knew a little before meeting me. i asked him in the beginning of our relationship if he had a child he said no. there were other conversations about a baby popping up and he still said no. im soooo sad, he says he didnt tell me in the beginning because he didnt know if we were gonna be in a commited relationship and that when he fell in love he kept it from me because he didnt want to loose me. now that the secret is out i been feeling so insecure... im not mad about the baby. i understand she is here to stay so i wanna love her because i love my man. but i been feeling so insecure... he tells me he loves me and only me but i still have thought of him leaving me for his baby momma. nobody wants a insecure gf. having an insecure partner only burdens the relationship. i dont know what to do or what to say. i dont wanna leave him but i dont wanna be insecure either :(


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