how do i tell the father of my child that he should stay away from his ex??

Kathia - posted on 09/01/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




to make a long story short when he was with his girlfriend i was pregnant with his child the the girlfriend found out and we got into a fight and she kicked me in my stomach when i was three months pregnant at that time me and my childs father hated eachother he treated me like crap i decided to remove him from my life after that i had no contact with him for at least three months i called him when i was 6 months to inform him that we were having a girl he was excited and told me that the reason for him being nasty to me while i was pregnant was because of his now ex girlfriend. i asked him has he ever contacted her after the break but he said no but she was calling him trying to get him back i dont care who the child of my father dates or wants to be with i just dont want his mind to be influenced by this girl again to where he feels like her and my child are equal and im scared that he might just abandon our daughter and do whatever and when him and her break up again he tries to be in her life it took lots of courage and i put my pride aside during the times he treated me wrong and thought about our daughter having both parents. ive asked him acouple of times but he says he doesnt make contact and doesnt even want to talk to her or be her friend i know one of his cousids has her as a facebook friend and i one day caught the cousin showing my babies father the girls profile and when i seen that he tried to hurry up and exit off am i being overly dramatic what should i say or do??/ honest opinions please


Jodi - posted on 09/01/2012




In all honesty, you can't control his friends or who he has contact with. All you can do is let him know how you feel about it, and then the choice is his. That's is just something you have to accept, as difficult as it is.

Kristin - posted on 09/01/2012




Seems like a lot of drama with him.

he's looking at his ex girlfriends Facebook. chalk it up to curiosity.

can u really say j haven't asked or check out an ex boyfriend


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