How much time is too much time apart?

Jennifer - posted on 09/04/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




We were great through out our whole pregnancy.. once I had our now 9 month old (Elizabeth Grace) things went down hill. Of course I was a little up and down and our house was chaos... we also have a 3 and 4 year old. We started bickering back and forth more, there was just always tension in the house. I love this man with all my heart. When he left he stated that he just wasn't happy that he needed some space and to be left alone for a little bit. Well... I did. He went and stayed at our campground in our camper and then started staying at his parents. Now.. a couple weeks ago I found out he has his own place. That he wont tell me where it is.. even though my kids go there to stay with him. He does work alot but we still see each other .. we go have dinners here and there.. go shopping for the girls.. he comes over to hangout with the girls when he has extra time during the week and him and I are still together sexually. But still to this day he is telling me that he needs space. And it hurts.. it hurts like hell that he is doing this becuase I love him more than anything in the world and want nothing more then our family back. I just dont know what to do.. part of me feels like i am being strung along and another part feels like he just needs more time to clear his head and realize that its his family that he wants.. i just dont know anymore and could use a little advise.. thank you :)


Michelle - posted on 09/04/2012




I think you should be seeking out couples counseling to get to the root of the problem so it can either be fixed or at least both of you can mover forward from this. Sounds like he has gone back to dating you.

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