how to get over the fact that i had a miscareage

Brittany - posted on 06/28/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




hi i am 16 last august i met my real first love. that september we got the wonderful news that i was pregnant. we were so happy every thing was going rely good.i was three months along and i was have pain and bleeding a little bit. so i just took some pain medication and went to bed well later that night i woke up with a bunch of blood and i knew what had happened. we had everything for our baby thanks to his parents and a job. we were crushed we were not trying at the time to get pregnant we just said if it happens it happens. well we stayed together five month after we miscaried. he texted me on mother day and told me happy mothers day i said no im not a mother he said yes you are your baby is up there in heaven i started to cry. and then he texted me on fathers day and said i would have been a father i didnt reply back. i do not know how to get over everything that happened.


Dove - posted on 06/28/2012




I am VERY sorry for your loss. In time it WILL get better (been there, done that, but it's rough).

I do have to say though.... you are the same person that just posted about wondering if you should have unprotected sex... Apparently it's not protected enough....

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE wait to have more sex until you are finished with high school at least. Yes, being a teen mom CAN work out, but it's not ideal and your future children deserve as ideal of a situation as you can create for them. Think about THEM first.

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