How to handle my boyfriend's kids

Alison - posted on 12/18/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )




Please help! Any advice will be greatly appreciated. I am a single mother (not married) with a 15 year old son. We have for the past two years been living with my boyfriend and his kids whom he has full custody of, along with his parents who live on the same property and also partially look after his kids. I have recently moved out of the house due to my son picking up allot of his kids bad habits and bad behaviour. I did not end the relationship and I spend most weekends at his house. The problem is that he is so involved with his work that he does not take note of what his kids are doing even though he works from home. He lets his daughter aged 13 and son aged 15 walk all over him - they have no respect or descipline. It sometimes gets so bad that they will swear at him as well as back as well as scream at him. The sad reality is they are not to blame and he never draws the line nor take note of what he kids are doing around him. He is too scared to descipline them. I am presuming that is due to loosing his first two kids from his first marrige. His ex wife and kids moved overseas.
His kids hate me being at the house as they know i take note of what is happening and mention it to their Dad as it is not my job to descipline them. What do I do, as I truely love my boyfriend?

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