husband doesnt like grandkids

Connie - posted on 01/08/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )




My husband of 18 years doesnt like spending time with our blended family of 7 grown children and 17 total grandchildren. If i had any idea he would be like this i would not hace married him. This attitude is worsening with time. He is 65 yrs old now.i love them all so much -his and mine. I dont understand how he can be so cold and unfriendly to them...even his own.he goes out of his way to ignore them when they come to visit. I want to leave him. He is totally a loving good husband but this issue has harcened my heart to him.


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Mardi - posted on 01/09/2014




Comp;romise.....if he doesn't like them being there, he can go out when you have them He isn't gonna like anything you suggest, so you have to look at hte least you will tolerate from him and go from there.
I know men who are fathers like this.....and their wives are also bitterly dissappointed in their lack of interest in their own families

Gena - posted on 01/08/2014




Have you spoken to him and asked him why he ignores them and doesnt like them to come over?I dont really have advice but i think if you ask him maybe you could talk to him about how it makes you feel..and if there is something you/he could change.Good luck

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