Husband living off me

Frankie - posted on 01/30/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )




I'm tired of my husband living off me financially. We have been together since October 2011. We have a 17 month old son together along with my 4 other kids ages 17, 13,10, and 3. Since we been together he may have brought diapers twice. He left me when i got pregnant and returned the day after the baby was born at the hospital begging me to marry him. So i'm wondering why he came back then. Later i found out his sister whom he was living off of gave him a thirty day notice to leave her house. Am I wrong for feeling like this whole marriage and family situation is a joke on me. I'm so over my marriage at this point i need financial support. I found out he has three other kids whom he hadn't seen in over 10 years and owe 17,800 in past due childsupport and i'm worried if we separate he's not going to make effort to see or support my son either. But over the years he have put me in financial debt. He got two Dui got my car impounded, he want pay his probation and he has multiple warrants in different cities that just catching up to him,because he want pay his fines. I have bounded him out of jail a couple times just oneof his bond was over a 1,000 dollar s for childsupport. I feel that it's not my responsibility to pay his probation and fines i'm tired is it wrong for me to give up on my marriage. He also tells everyone he's one of my children which makes me angery.most of the time i have to pond my t.v. etc.... To pay my own bills or buy diaper. What should I do I was feeling sorry for myself because we agreed to have a baby, and I didn't want to be left with child number Five.

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