I am not sure if I want another baby?

Kayla - posted on 06/27/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )




I had a miscarrige about 6 months ago and I have made the choice that I do not want to try for another. My husband on the other hand wants a baby because the child we have now was from a previous relationship and he would like at least one child of his own. He loves my daughter and treats her as if she was his. What should I do? Should I try again? I am scared I will lose this baby as well, and I don't know if I could handle that.-Kayla


~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/27/2011




Well, he obviously does not feel like she is his. Really,bringing a life into this world should be made by both parties, not pressured into it by one or the other. I think you need to talk about it further, and let him know exactly how you feel. Tell him maybe not to bring it up for a year, and discuss it further then. Sometimes after a tragic miscarriage, women feel differently about pregnancy....sometimes those feelings go away after healing....and of course sometimes they don't. He needs to know this.

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