I am not sure what to do

Adina - posted on 09/26/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




I have a 16 year old sister, she has been hanging out with a girl who is my age (24). This girl just go off house arrest, and she is in a gang. My mom has no control over her, she do what she wants when she wants. Well the other day my sister told me things that she has done and still does. She does cocain, and X on a daily basis. All the guys she hangs out with is in this gang with is Latin Kings. She said they want her to join the gang just so they can all have sex with her. Which she told me that she has already had sex with a hand full of them already. She drinks alot also. The girl she hangs with has already slashed her tires, broke her cell phone. My mom I dont think knows everything she does, she doesnt want to deal with her so she just lets her do whatever she wants. I am scared for my sister's life and also my mom's, and my family's life. My sister hates my mom and I am scared since she is hanging out with gang members she will have them do something to our mom....or if my sister doesnt listen to them they will hurt or kill her family or her. I just dont know what to do anymore. I have tired talking to my sister she doesnt listen. She wants to do whatever she wants, and what she wants to do is very dangerous for her whole family. I am thinking about telling my mom everything but I dont know....I think that will be the best thing. But I dont know what would happen if I told my mom. I am just scared for her life, and my moms...and sorta my familys because the girl she hangs with knows where I live. So please if anyone has any advise on what will be the best way to handle this or any services I can tell my mom about to get my sister some help I would be very thankful....


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Katherine - posted on 09/26/2012




Wow. I would tell your mom right away! She is still a minor. Tell her to keep it on the down low and have your sister sent somewhere. I know there are places for troubled teens, but I don't know where you live....

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