I had three months babe girl but my marriage don't want to work

User - posted on 10/02/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




had three months babe girl but my marriage don't want to work, is his first born but he is very sensetive and he feel that i gave my little girl more attention then him. Actual what must i do?


Ariana - posted on 10/02/2012




Having a baby can be a strain on marriages since you're going into a whole new section of your life. It does sound like your husband is sensitive, but you need to tell him that, yes, you love him, and you also love your daughter. Your daughter comes first.

Try explaining to him that you love him but you also need to spend a lot of time with your daugher (plus he should be spending a lot of time with your daughter). Tell him you want to spend one on one time with him as long as he starts spending more time with the baby and not being jealous that when you are with her.

You could get a babysitter and have a special date-night with him once a week to make him feel less sensitive.

If it's a really big problem see a couples councellor with him to work out how to make it better.

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