I have an overly helpful, energetic, talkative 3 year old.... how do i deal with him?

Daysi - posted on 10/22/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I am a server at a restaurant downtown and i work in the afternoons i usually get out around 1 am and i pick him up from his nanny's like at about 2 am in the morning. so i am really tired in the morning not to mention that i will start college again in the spring i feel that there is not enough of me to go around. he is a really good kid he really tries to help all the time and he wants to do everything for me and he just has no mute button on him!!! He is the love of my life but I feel like i am not good enough of a mom.. i am at my breaking point and i do not know how to provide him with a better "life"?

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Daysi - posted on 10/22/2012

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thank you Ariana, this really helps its just a little hard, i constantly feel guilty about not spending enough time with him. and when i do find the time i seem to have a short fuse... i try to step away from by little one when i am at my worst i step out and vent not wanting him to think that he is the reason mommy os always mad... i have tried to set up a routine but i keep failing at it.. :/ i guess i just have to keep trying...



also about having a friend like me well thats kinda hard to find i tried once to befriend another single mom but she turned out to be a kid who simply shoved her problems onto her parents and she was actually they were there for her. unfortunately she did not know how to appreciate... see i have no family and i work and study so much i do not have many if any friends. most of my coworkers are older (you see i am 22) yet they are still unable to comprehend my situation providing no help at all... also i have very little to no tolerance for stupidity, laziness and well i do ask for people to be responsible and sadly people my age are not there yet...



i am confused and tired and sad and sort of disappointed in myself.....

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