i have noticed my daughters biological father on circle of mums.. is this allowed???

Kirsten - posted on 05/02/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )




i noticed that he is on there and even a fan of my daughter, are men allowed on this site??? and if not how do i get him removed????


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Hey Kirsten. I went and found your ex's profile link (http://www.circleofmoms.com/about_me/435... - for your reference) and I reported it to the CoM's leaders.

However, I would also suggest you report it directly to the management team here at CoMs. To do that, go to the bottom of this page and click on the "Contact Us" link (about halfway down the middle column) and send them a mesage along with the profile link I postd above. This will doubly mae sure it gets taken care of :)

If I may ask, how did he find your daughter's profile? Did you at one point list him as her father? I havent' done the "add family" think on my kids' profiles, but I think doing that may make profiles for those people. The only other way he could have found your daughter's profile was to lurk around until he found a post by you, where he could then go to and find your daughter's profile (and I REALLY hope all that made sense). I would suggest making your daughter's profile viewable by only people in your circle - you do this from the "settings" link when you scroll over the "My Account" icon at the top of this page.

Anyway, I hope the management team can get him removed as soon as possible since men are not allowed on here :)


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Kirsten - posted on 05/04/2011




thank-you to everyone for their help, im assuming he found her because i use to have his sister as a friend, but think i will also remove her. and adjust my settings now that i have been told how too. thank-you very much.

Community - posted on 05/03/2011




Hi Kirsten,
In order for the biological father to be on listed as a fan of your daughter, he must received an fan invite from you allowing him to do so. With the mother's invitation, anyone can be a fan of their child. Fans without a Circle of Moms account has limited access on this site. They cannot contribute to post or create conversations. We don't know how he became a fan without your invite, but to remove him as your daughter's fan, you will need to:

1. Go to your daughter's Child Page
2. Scroll down to your daughter's Fan Club and Click "Edit Fans"
3. Click the “X” next to the father's profile image to remove

Please let us know if you need further support.

The Circle of Moms Team

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Actually Michelle, the site can't be sued for kicking him off. It's called Circle of MOMS, not Dads, and men are regularly kicked off, the management team just doesn't advertise it all over the place...

Michelle - posted on 05/03/2011




i would jsut make your profile private and only to see for your friends as really any parent should ahve a right to access the site whether you like him or not . if you have a court order saying that he is to hav eno contact with you or your child then report it but be prepared to s how proof.the site could get sued for kicking him off because of a personl conflict between the 2 of you

Tara - posted on 05/02/2011




From what I understand, there are some dads on here as there is not a corresponding "Circle of Dads" for them.
If you have a personal problem with having your daughter's father on the site then I would contact administration and explain to them why you do not want him on the site or able to view your profile.

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