I'm 40 weeks and doing everything I can to have this baby but nothing is working not even walking or sex what to do?

Tracy - posted on 02/01/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




I'm stressed cause I have been doing everything I have been told to do to make her come out but nothing I am soing is working I have the contractions and I am dilated to 4cm walking alot and having sex alot but nada is helping. God know the pains there to confused on how to make this come along.


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Kate CP - posted on 02/01/2012




I know how much this sucks. I was in labor for six days with my son. It was AWFUL. Take a hot shower, drink some raspberry tea, and have your partner massage your feet. You need to RELAX! It sounds like your body is trying to have a baby but you may be so excited that it's fighting the process.

Try and take it easy. Rest, relax, and sleep. It's called labor for a reason! You will be working your butt off once the real thing starts and you'll need your rest! Good luck, congratulations, and be patient. It WILL happen! :)

Michelle - posted on 02/01/2012




Unfortunately babies will come when they are ready, unless you get induced.

Try and enjoy these last few days and get some rest because your not going to get much after your baby arrives. Good luck with it all.

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