i need advice

Jessica - posted on 02/20/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




I Ended up getting very sice 6 week before our secong bady was born now Bryce is 6mth old.

I ended up with Infulenza B, my oxegen level was down to 30% and that was with the oxegen on! I ended up having an emergency c/section at 36 1/2 weeks as my body was shutting down!

We are both health know, but I was put into isulation and didn't get to see Bryce for 5 days, the hardest thing ever...

We agreed we would have 3 kids but my partner has change his mind, I think what happend sceard him.. I feel like this will come between us!

Should I pish the 3rd baby thing or forget about it????????


Bonnie - posted on 02/20/2012




Well in my opinion being that ill would likely scare me off of having anymore. It could very well be that your partner is scared for you and what could possibly happen. Although, no two pregnancies and births are alike.

If it means that much to you to have another, I would sit down with him and talk it though. Don't push it, just discuss it. Sometimes it takes men awhile to turn around.

I experienced this with my husband. I wasn't ill or anything. He just wanted to stop at two and I wanted one more baby. It took a year and a half of letting it go and bringing it up every so often for him to come around.


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Jessica - posted on 02/22/2012




His starting pushing that he wants "the snip!" I've spoken to the docotr an because his 26 yrs old they will not do it!

Talking about this, ha ha what that! Jason seams to just walk away.

Seams the doctors told us pritty much to come back when we are 30 yrs old for snip, that gives me 3 yrs to sit back and think about it all!

Thanks Bonni, I do tell Jason the whole 'every pregnacy is different thing' don't seam to matter tho! :(

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