I need advice, i'm seriously dying inside...

Jen - posted on 01/17/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )




I married my husband when i was 18 because i was pregnant and thats what was expected of us if we wanted our families to have a good reputation, so we did as we were told. Its now been 4 years, and i feel so empty inside, i just know in my heart that hes not for me, but i don't know how to walk away, and i'm scared if i do, hes going to do everything in his power to keep my kids away from me. Hes got an anger issue, i used let him verbally abuse me and say nothing but now i stick up for myself, but i also realized that i've become a lot more bitter inside and angry. What should i do?


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Patricia Ann - posted on 01/17/2013




The best thing to do is to go your own way,just be very nice about it,you got married for the wrong reasons,now things can get messy....Thats why I say be nice about it and share the children with him through visitation as long as there is no violence towards the kids ever.Just go down and file the paper work and have him served,dont let others carve your path, like you already did by getting married to someone because you were pregnant,and because others would frown on you if you didnt....You arent happy well explain this as best you can to him and you never know maybe he will agree....Just be carefull...

Jennifer - posted on 01/17/2013




Try sitting down and telling him how you feel. He will probably get angry but you cant stay married to someone if you're not happy. You could even try talking to therapist and see what he/she says. And don't feel bad, my boyfriend keeps telling me he wants to move out but is only living with me cause I asked him to stay. I feel like I'm forcing him to live with me. He doesnt tell me that he loves me as much anymore. But anyway, whatever you choose to do I hope everything works out:)

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