I need help

Esperanza - posted on 08/05/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




Im a single mom, I have a 4 yr old boy.
I just have moved from L.A and to Reno. and I feel bad bcus my little boy's dad lives in L.A and my family are telling me not to talk to my son's dad and hes side of the family. theres so many reason when i was leaving in l.a my son's dad wasnt helping me at all and hes still not helping me with money. he never calls to see hows my son doing and b4 he use to give me $50 for 1 or 2 week once in a month and im so tired of telling him to please help me. yes he has another family he has a little boy and hes new wife dont like me at all. i feel like its her fault that hes not helping me out bcus my sons grandmother had told me that she doesnt wanna work until her little boy turns 6 yrs old and hes only 1yr old. my son's grandparents are the one whos helping me out but my ex is not helping me with the money. like i said he doesnt call to see hows my son doing and me and him we havent talk. we just dont get along everything im talking to him is like talking to the wall. it really hurts me bcus i see little kids with their dad and my son is alone and i really feel bad and i sometimes blame myself that my son dont have his dad in his life.my relationship with hes dad is not good, i left him bcus we use to argue and he would always make me feel bad . i just dont know what to do, the only support i have is my family. dont know if i should just wait until he or his grandparents calls me or just leave it alone


Michelle - posted on 08/05/2012




Make sure they know how to contact you and then let them take it from there as for the father not helping to support this child, go after him for child support. Just cause he has a new family does not negate his responsibilities this son. Keep the door open for them to have a relationship but don't struggle because he refuses to step up and be a man.

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