I need help desperately, My name is Debby white My daughter was 21 yrs. old when she died from brain cancer Jan. 15th 2012 Also I am homeless , and so are my 2 sons we all 3 are losing it we have no income , no home really no support , we only have each other and this is ROCK BOTTOM for us I also totaled our car so it is hard to occupy our minds, we are just getting worse more depressed and all 3 of us are suicidal. We have been trying to get help for 6 months Nothing is moving or happening in our lives and I am totally helpless and I am so tired of just laying in a bed 24-7 7 days a week I cannot do this anymore


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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/05/2013




Debby, I'm sorry for your loss.

I can't contribute much except to say that Jamie has excellent advise, so I won't repeat that. I will keep you and your boys in my thoughts and prayers.

Jamie - posted on 03/05/2013




I'm sorry to hear for your loss.

Start by counting your blessings. It's useful that you have an internet connection. There are things you can do online. The first one that comes to mind is to go ask for money at indiegogo.com. Search "crowdfunding" there's other sites too.

Talk to the suicide hotline, go to a church or temple. Pray, meditate, practice believing that you will always have what you need. Find something that gives you some hope and some purpose. My personal favorite right now is reading all the One People's Trust stuff on the internet. It gives me all sorts of hope that things are changing.

The other one, is to laugh for no reason. Go watch Dr. Madan Katarian on youtube, here's my favorite one:

You are NOT totally helpless, even if it feels that way, but you are allowed to choose it.

Sending lots of love and light in your direction.

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