I need to kick my 21 year old bipolar and unemployed son out of the house.

Darla - posted on 06/21/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )




I can't handle the verbal abuse anymore. My son yells and screams at me. He has also stolen 2 TV's from the house as well as 3 IPOD touches among many other things. He has been denied SSI twice. Not sure how to make him homeless but can't have him living under my roof anymore. I am a nurse. He has went the ER I work in and demanded narcotics and left very angry. I was not working that night but the doctor and other staff now have seen what I have been dealing with for years. They say he is no longer your responsibility. I need to make myself and husband and other two kids safe. He won't take his meds (abilify and seroquel). The last time I got the meds refilled he emptied the bottles out in the yard.Feeling hopeless. Even thinking about running away from it all. I have nurse friends in Tennessee, Floirda and Arizonia. Not sure what to do. I probably need to have police here to escort him out but know if I need and order of protection.


User - posted on 12/01/2013




I have a 21 year-old son and I need him out of my home also but what I'm trying to do is place him in a facility.. he takes his med sometimes he is very disrespectful and disgusting sometimes I feel I'm all alone here. I can't take him anywhere because he is so embarrassing. My life revolves around him. I can't work cause he can't be left alone I'm just a tired feed up mom

Jodi - posted on 06/21/2013




A restraining order will probably do it (or order of protection if that's what it is called where you live). That way, the police will escort him while he packs anything that is his and leaves. It is also enforceable if he tries to come back.


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Dove - posted on 06/21/2013




Ditto Jodi. I'm sorry!! Hang in there! Prayers for you and prayers that your son takes the steps he needs to get straightened out.

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