i want another baby

Ayanda - posted on 03/12/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )




am a mom of a 15 month old baby i feel she is a lil big gal who might not need much frm me ...... and lately i want another child my problem is am dating a new guy who adores her and i dnt knw if i want a baby frm a different man and yet again me n baby daddy arent together... am i crazy


~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/13/2013




Yeah I would take some time with your daughter and this new man. Your daughter is still a baby herself. While I am not opposed to increasing family size, sometimes you should wait until all is in order. Are you even in love with this guy? How long have you been together for? Does he live with you? Does he even want a baby with you? I mean, really you need to see where this relationship is going before making a huge commitment to this man like having his baby.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/12/2013




Ok, first, you expect your kid to not need more from you because she's getting older? News flash: 15 MONTHS is not grown. You still have 17 YEARS ahead of your child needing you.

Second, if you're still using the vernacular "me n baby daddy", you're no where near mature enough to have another child, unless you plan to have that child after getting into a solid relationship.

In other words, no, you don't need another baby. You don't need another "baby daddy", you don't need to add more people to this earth. You need to mature, raise the baby you have, and look for a secure, lasting relationship prior to having any more kids.


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Michelle - posted on 03/12/2013




I would slow down and make sure that the next baby you have that you are in a long term committed relationship.

I have my first 2 by a different father to my 3rd but this marriage is forever, unlike my first one.

Please don't be like my cousin who is now pregnant with baby #7 to the 5th different father and is only 34!

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