im confused...pls help

Yetunde - posted on 04/16/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )




Hello 6months pregnant for a man that I love but doesnt love me as much as I love him.he doesnt give me attention and want to rather be wit his frnds.we intend getting married in sept.shld I go ahead wit the marriage for the sake of my unborn child or have the baby and move on wit my life wit the hope dat someday I wl find som1 dat wl love me wit my child...pls help me I dont know wat to do


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Raye - posted on 04/17/2015




I agree for the most part with the other advice that has been given. You should be with someone who wants to spend time with you. But I also want to ask if you're sure you're not doing something to drive him away. I don't know your situation, so don't think I'm blaming you for anything. It's just some women can be very demanding and some guys need a little breathing room. Also pregnancy can make you very emotional, and you could be over reacting. All just possibilities, not saying this is actually happening. But before you give up on your family, you should try to see things from all angles. And you should try talking to him and letting him know your feelings and see if things will get better. Don't just decide to leave without talking and trying to work it out. Because then you will have regrets.

Cutemommy - posted on 04/16/2015




Don't get married do the three of you a favor, just because you aren't married doesn't mean he can't be a great father to his child, and don't get pregnant until your sure you find someone that respects and loves you.

Michelle - posted on 04/16/2015




Why would you want to marry someone who doesn't want to spend time with you?
Do you really think that he will change after you're married? I'll tell you he won't!
It's up to you but if you are already asking this question before getting married then I think you already now your answer.
You should marry someone who loves you the same as you love them and wants to be with you.

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