im living with my fiance' for 3 years and im 6 mos old pregnant..he was a nice guy very quiet type of guy..he is faithful and he loves me, but im having issues about his attitude..he so mean to me at times very hard headed he never listens to me im doing all the house chores even though its hard for me to do it due to my pregnancy..he so immature he loves playing online game ever since we've met till now.. he quit his job he is a irregular employee..hes salary is not enough to support me and our future baby even though his family is well off.what should i do? im so stressed whenever im pushing him to do something or to work he ignore e and never listen to me..he so mean..his acting like a kid..he dont understand how i feel and whenever i want to talk with him about things he is just ignoring me and he never listen..we are getting married soon should i stay with him for the baby? or should i leave him? :(


Danielle Kimberly - posted on 10/26/2012




He does sound very immature, but he is the guy you met and you chose to stay with him this long and have a baby with him. He might never change unfortunately. Leaving or staying....that's a very tough decision. You sound unhappy and he isn't listening to you or willing to help, I'm worried this will only get worse once the baby arrives. Fulfilling a baby's needs and keeping a household together is a tough job, some moms can do this on their own, but it's def not easy. Your best bet would be to getaway for a weekend, maybe go to your parents house or a friends house and really take some time to think about it. Only you will know what's right for you and your baby.

I'm curious to know, what are your fiance's feelings towards the baby? Was he happy? Supportive? Didn't care?

Stress isn't healthy for your baby right now so you might need to just let go of whatever he does to bother you or hurt you. Take nice long walks to unwind and release the frustration you have towards your fiance (and its great pregnancy excercise).

Maybe some time apart is what you both need.

A healthy, loving environment is what your baby needs.

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