Insecure mom! Helppp

Alexis - posted on 08/03/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )




Is it normal to be insecure of every single choice i make for my 6mounth old baby? I wander some times if I'm a good mother!


Kimberly - posted on 08/04/2012




You are a good mom because you do second guess yourself!!!! You and your baby are both new at this so everything is a learning step, you will make mistakes every now and then but most of the time you will get it right for what work for YOU and YOUR BABY!!!!! My daughter is now almost three and I will be having our second one in a few months, I know I will do something different then I did with our daughter because I have learned better ways but at the time my daughter was little it was what worked for us then. If you thought you knew everything and never seconded guessed stuff or never asked questions would be when I would worry. There are heaps of books out there telling you a million things but that doesnt mean it will work for you, just believe in yourself and follow what works good for both you and baby. I've always taken peoples advise as more of a memo, store it away for a day you might need to try something different. Being a mom is a great thing and you are doing fine

Gabrielle - posted on 08/03/2012




you just want to be the best mom you can be so you are going to second guess yourself every step of the way til you figure out what you want and dont want for your child. stick in there and you will be fine.


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Prisca - posted on 08/05/2012




Yup. I think that we're always going to be wondering but he you didn't wonder you wouldn't be such a great mom. Just don't let it get you down.

User - posted on 08/04/2012




Following one parenting technique over another does not make you a good mom, what makes you a good mon is knowing that every decision you made had your child's best intrest at heart. Make the best decisions for you and your family and don't worry about what the rest of us say and do ;) we all parent differently and we all have different children what works for one will not always work for some one else. Don't worry to much I'm sure you are a fantastic mom

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