is he gay?

Shawna - posted on 12/10/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




I have caught my husband doing less than favorable things on the internet several times over the years that I am growing increasingly concerned about. First was looking up his ex (the love of his life...), then singles in his area, then I found out he was a member of cross dresser chat city (where he had pics of him in women's clothes a fake name... which he deleted before I could look at what he had been doing on) regular porn, transexual sites, and more recently, gay porn which he promised to stop and admitted that he has sucked dick before. Then he became very secretive with his phone so I confronted him yet again, and he admitted he had been looking at titties, but failed to mention these "women" also had dicks... I mean, transexuals gays and shemales?! We have sex maybe 6x's a year. And when asked why he doesn't want me he always comes up with reasons that are my fault, I've gained too much weight, I'm too depressed, and such. I've tried so hard to be what he wants, lost weight, started meds, dress up for him. I even asked him to include me if that's what he needs to be sexually stimulated but he won't. He just continues to hide it and lies to my face about it. I want to just run away but I know he would take my son away from me and I'd rather stay than have that happen. I'm so hurt and confused and lost. I just don't know what to do... :(


LalaBoom - posted on 12/10/2013




Shawna, sweetheart, he may not necessarily be gay- but he's at the very least bisexual.

He cannot take your son away from you- he belongs to you both.

I suggest you head for a counselor, if you want to work things out. Or better yet, a divorce lawyer. This man is not giving you what you need and actively excludes you from his sexual escapades. That message is loud and clear.

Wish you the best!

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