is it right to cut off contact with bio father and his family?

Gina - posted on 07/19/2011 ( no moms have responded yet )




My daughter is almost 14 months old, her father and I ended under horrible circumstances 5 weeks before she was born. He was drinking a lot and cheating on me with several different women. He saw my daughter the day after she was born because I told him he could And the last time he saw her was when she was 2 months old (right before he got married) he hasn't sent her anything since she was 3 months old (not even for Christmas or even her birthday!) And has made no effort to contact me whatsoever and somehow manages to get away with only paying $20-40 a month for cs when I do receive it. H
his mother has told me she loves my daughter and called for her birthday and has sent her stuff, but she has not once made the effort to drive 2 hours to come meet her. He just had another child a month ago and within a matter of hours she drove am hour to go see his new kid. Here's the question I it wrong for me to try and cut them out of her life entirely? He also has an 8 year old who is not his biological daughter, but he is the only dad she's known, and they have completely written her out if their life after 8 years and I've seen the effects of it on that poor little girl and I never want to see my daughter hurt that way. But I can't help but feel guilty. Please I need some advice

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