
Elizabeth - posted on 04/17/2010 ( 34 moms have responded )
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I am having a terrible time with people wanting to touch my stomach. Some days I yell at them but i find myself hitting people more because telling them no seems to not work. So am I wrong?
Okay so i left a few details out. I was on my way out when i asked my question. Now that i have become pregnant people feel i have a sign on my stomach that read's "please touch here." I'm a private to myself person and value my personal space. Mostly strangers and neighbors feels it's their job to reach out and touch my belly. When no it's not an option i hit them. So am I wrong?
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Kristin - posted on 04/17/2010
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No you are not wrong to want people to keep their hands to themselves. Most will get the hint if you move back or turn away as they go to touch. Unfortunately, not all will get it. You are completely in the clear to ask that they not touch in the future. Some will be offended, but it is still your body and if they can't respect your boundaries then it may just be better if you don't spend much time with them for a while.
Some people are just blessed with a "touch me and lose a hand" kind of vibe, might be a good thing to work on. Coats, scarves, large bags or purses help to shield you too.
Also, this really is a violation of your personal space and as everyone knows
NO means NO.
Sara - posted on 04/17/2010
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No not at all.. I was the same way i just told them i need some space and put my hand on my belly.. don't be afraid its your personal space that they are getting in..