Is this okay?

Ashley - posted on 01/19/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )




My husband wanted to have a baby, so when he convinced me, we got pregnant very fast. Now, even though I am willing to do anything to turn him on, he is very turned off by my pregnant body. I find on his phone all of the time where he is looking at soft porn and he watches a certain woman on tv when we are intimate, how bad should that hurt me? Is this behavior normal? Will he cheat?


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Once I hit about 8 months my husband didn't want to have sex because he was afraid of hitting the baby and also inducing labor. That kind of back fired a little because it's only been recently that I haven't hurt and could have sex (our son is 9 months old but he was a big baby so it took a while to heal), anyway maybe he is feeling like that.

I would however talk to him about the porn to me that just isn't right.


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Ashley - posted on 01/20/2013




Thank you both for your input, it just hurt me so bad, it feels like he is cheating

Michelle - posted on 01/19/2013




You need to discuss it with him.

Some men don't want to "hurt" the baby by being intimate with a pregnant woman and others don't find a pregnant woman sexy. I would be concerned if my husband was more interested in porn than me though but my husband loved me being pregnant.

He may not cheat but you need to open up the communication between the 2 of you otherwise it's going to be a lot more difficult when bubs comes along.

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