Leave my son's dad alone or fight for him to be there?

Kara - posted on 09/20/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




He never asks about calls to check on our baby. ever!

He comes and goes.... sometimes he will just text me to talk or to pretend like he wants to get back together when secertly he actually has a girlfriend. He really only brings drama and heartache to MY life and doesn't ask or do anything for our child. Should I just change my number and block him out of our lives? What is the right thing to do here. He does by child support but his wages are garnished for it, he has no choice.


Dove - posted on 09/20/2012




You can't make a man be a Daddy... no matter what you do. 100% blocking him out of your lives is just on the opposite end of the spectrum of wrong from trying to force him to be a Daddy. The best thing to do is to go to court and get custody and visitation issues settled and in writing. Then it's up to him whether or not he TAKES his visitations.

Sorry! Good luck!

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