Lost mother.

Silvia - posted on 03/22/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )




Iam 36 years old and very unhappy. Sometime i cry to myself. I have a 9 month old and a 6 year old. I feel like a complete failure Also ihave an emotionally abusive father. I dont feel good about myself. Since i was alot younger. my father been treating me n my other three sisters second best. hes very old fashion. We live with him because theres other place to live in this very small town. He calls me stupid, gets mad at me for nothing. Since i was a kid ive always felt hated by others and wen ii was a teenager and now. i dont have a single friend. I feel like i just want to disappear. from everyone far far away.


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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/22/2012




I'd see if you and your sisters could possibly move out together? It may be a struggle, but you would be better for it...

Doing it together, and getting support together would be easier than alone. In the meantime, try to look for some sort of support group for emotionally abused people. I'm not sure what area you're in, so not sure of resources, but there should be something, I'd hope?

If your kids see your father treating you and their aunts abusively, they will learn that behavior, so if you can, i'd see about getting out.

You can PM me any time if you need to :-)

Jo - posted on 03/22/2012




mmm thats very tough for you. Is there not another town you can move too.

you ren't a failure as you have 2 lovely children.. Dont let then live in the same mould as you have indured. You would want them to have a better future. Your father is feeling like that because he doesnt feel good about him self so he makes you feel the same. Go get some help, speak to someone but if possible move it out to another town, if your sisters can go with you take them as well. then your father will find out lonely he is after awhile. He will be mean and nasty for a while but when he knows you wont move back he may change

Tabitha - posted on 03/22/2012




Honey, keep your head up. You have your children, they love you. You might have to venture out of the very small town to get your own place. Try having a talk with your dad to find out why he talks to you like this. Tell him that if he continues to treat you that way, you'll find your own place and limit the time he gets to spend with his grandchildren. Look online for other mothers in your area that you can hang out with or even chat on the phone with. I'm not sure where you're located but you can private message me anytime you want...I'll be your friend!

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