Loving someone for all the wrong reasons

Ashley - posted on 08/18/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




How do you stop loving someone for all the wrong reasons. for example, my daughters father. we fight 24/7 to the point its physical, both of us are miserable, but no one leaves. ever. im still completely in love although its gone sour, it just seems like the bad things are what make me happy now.....


Anna - posted on 08/18/2013




thats a hard one. i dont know if its possible to just stop loving someone...but just because you love someone doesnt mean you should be in a relationship with them. i was in a horrible relationship with my ex. it never got physical, but there was a lot of emotional abuse and i stayed. i loved him so i stayed in a shitty relationship being treated badly and lived for the 'good' days. is there anything you wont put up with? i have promised myself that if i ever get hit or cheated on that person wont get the chance to do it a second time. anyway, he ended up cheating. it broke my heart, but that was the end. and now i am so thankful that he cheated on me! it forced me to let go, even though i didnt want to. it too a while for me to get over it and him, but now i have amazing things in my life. you know when something is not healthy...and you dont want to put up with someone hitting you.

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