Low Self-Esteem! Help!

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So it's almost summer time which means beach time. I have Polish and Irish in me which unfortunately makes it hard for me to get a good tan. I've always been self conscious about how I look year around, but especially during the summer. As the years go on it seems that woman with small boobs and smaller size butts are nothing when it comes to those with bigger assets. This has never really gotten to me until this year, and I'm not even 100% sure why. Now that it's getting closer to summer its really getting to me and even my boyfriend is starting to notice something has been bothering me. I don't really know how to tell him "whats wrong" without sounding stupid. It makes me feel like "who would you rather look at? me, not as tan with smaller boobs (Im not flat but I'm sure not busty) . or a girl thats majorly tan with boobs hanging out her bikini". It makes me not want to go out to the beach or anything because I feel like I don't look as good as everyone else. I don't know what to do! Someone, please help!


Tyla - posted on 03/22/2013




No matter what people will find a reason to be rude to you or look down on you...even if you were tan with huge boobs and a big butt it would not matter...Your bf still loves you and that is what matters so you need to learn to love yourself as much as he loves you :)

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