My 14 yr. old daughter is dating a boy and his mother doesn't like her. She doesn't even know that they're dating again. Last year this boy bullied her so bad I had the police involved because she broke up with him. Now they're dating again. Should I make this boy tell his mom that they're dating again or just let her find out on her own? OptionsAsk moms for advice


Jodi - posted on 11/01/2012




Personally, I think she is too young to be dating anyway, but that's your choice. However, I agree with Dove, why are YOU okay with her dating a boy who was bullying her anyway? If he was bullying her to the point where the police were involved, that is an abusive relationship. And I guess it is also understandable why his mother doesn't approve too. I think your daughter is treading very dangerously here, and you need to put a stop to it.

Dove - posted on 11/01/2012




Your daughter is dating a boy who bullied her and you're ok with that? Oh hell no would be my reaction.

I don't know what reason his mother doesn't like her, but he bullied your child and he's lying to his mother..... I'd be doing whatever it took to get my daughter to see what a stupid, dangerous position she is putting herself in.

Then again.... my kids aren't allowed to date until 16 without adult supervision.


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Sophia Marie - posted on 11/03/2012




where do you live? your 14 year old is already been abuse by a boyfriend! and you are only worry that the boy mom dont like her. WoW. Well I dont know but I have 3 boys and they were not allow to date anyone/ thing but their books at 13.

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