my 3year old wont listen and plays up whenever were out

Charmaine - posted on 04/12/2015 ( 16 moms have responded )

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My 3 year old daughter is bright inteligent and very very aactive!! She wont listen to anything i say though she misbehaves infront of people to show me up. She give me right attidue and i feel like im failing. I always give in when she wants something because the noise of winge is just too much.. i just dont know what to do my youngest is 1 and picking up on this to. help

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Michelle - posted on 04/12/2015

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Charmaine: Ignore "cats" it's just a troll that has been around for a couple of weeks and is very nasty. It's a bored child so don't take any notice of what it posts.

In regards to your OP, I agree with the other ladies. You need to stick to it when you say "No". Giving in (even occasionally) teaches your child that all she has to do is give attitude or whine until she gets what she wants.
I have also warned my children that if they didn't behave we would go back home. Guess what, I left a most of my groceries and went home because they kept it up. You have to follow through with whatever you say and they will soon learn you are more stubborn than them.

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Charmaine - posted on 04/12/2015

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Thank you i know its right. And i will stop giving in i dont want my children to walk over me and i am very loving to them both. Thanks for both of your advice.

Charmaine - posted on 04/12/2015

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I dont teach her the world is a happy place i do make her aware its not like that about strangers ect. How i wouldnt want her to run away from me when were out as there are some bad people out there that are not very nice. Your advice is correct and i will try not to give in.

Kinda feel like i wish i never used this site ive been insulted by cats and feel as though ive come across like im a parent without a clue. When really i do the best i can.. i just wanted advice on the not listening to anything and playing up whenever people come round. I just think i should of explained better. Never mind. Thank you for your advice

Charmaine - posted on 04/12/2015

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It is to CATS as she/he has just insulted my children!!

I thought u advice was right but i didnt explain my day to day routine i left it short and sweet. I dont always give in but most the time i do.. i just feel it makes her happier as i dont like seeing her upset

Charmaine - posted on 04/12/2015

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I think you seriously need help love!! If its a chat site you want look else where this is for advice!! Do u actually have kids? And my kids are far from ugly thank you very much.. no kids are ugly there all cute an different!! Just goes to show what ugly person u must be.. stop commenting ok dont need your perfectic advice thank you!!

Charmaine - posted on 04/12/2015

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All i wanted was some advice on how to get my 3year old to listen.. your comment was quiet rude.. i feel insulted.

Not everyone is like what u have been through!

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