my boyfriend girl doesnt want me to be near my son so she took my boyfriendto court

Sandy - posted on 11/02/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )




my boyfriend would like to spend more time with his kid so he ask her and she said no
so she went to court and file a paper saying she doesnt want her son to be near at all =( or left alone with me
but she doesnt understand that we have a while living together
i dont if the court will listen to her has anybody been at the position im in


Ev - posted on 11/03/2013




I have not been in this position but I do know that as the girlfriend you have no rights to this child or to say anything in the custody. All you can do is be there for your boyfriend and the child as support. But do ask that your boyfriend looking into all legal options he may have not thought of and that means getting a good lawyer. But if mom can not prove you are a danger to her child then she can not say who comes and goes from his father's house.

[momoftwo] - posted on 11/02/2013




Sounds like she has a bad case of jealousy. I'm not sure what courts are like there but they really can't do that to an extent. I mean, your boyfriend can fight for joint custody or visitation and he would probably win unless he is proven unfit. If he is a good dad then he shouldn't have a problem fighting for his rights to his son. It's all up to the courts and once they decide then she has to abide by those rules so it'll suck to be her. :P
She needs to stop being childish though because that little boy needs all the love and support from both parents, and you. She needs to get over the fact that you two are together and move on.

The only time I would have an issue with girls being in my one child's life (kids have different dads), is when it's a different girl being around her every day.
I hope it works out for you.

You should try looking up legal things, your rights and his rights when it comes to fighting in court for custody.


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