My Boyfriend has a 9 yr old daughter from a previous relationship?

Joslynn182 - posted on 12/12/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )




He doesn't see her all the time, I tell him all the time to see or have her come over to place but he doesn't call her,he makes up some excuse to not see her. Her mom doesn't have any problem with him seeing her or any problems with me either, I find it sad that when he daughter calls him or texts him I think its her mom doing the texting just to see if he even cares. He says he loves but I dunno.

Were about to have a baby and I want her to be able to see her baby brother. I would like my son to know his big sister. Im also worried if we split he will do the same thing to our son.. I know what its like not have a father who doesn't want see or pay attention to his children.. Should I be worried about this?


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Ashley - posted on 12/16/2012




you should be worried. maybe you can talk to the mom and have her over. dont leave it up to him anymore. if he doesnt want to pay attention to her when she is there, then maybe you could take her somewhere to have time together. then she would also know her sibling.

Dove - posted on 12/12/2012




I would've dumped him before getting pregnant.... A man who won't maintain contact with his children is not a man worth even 2 seconds of my time.

Joslynn182 - posted on 12/12/2012




I am too.. I have a tried talking to him about but he changes the subject.

Jodi - posted on 12/12/2012




I'd be concerned about his commitment to being a father, to be honest :\

~♥Little Miss - posted on 12/12/2012




Well, maybe ask your boyfriend if he wouldn't mind you contacting his daughter. It is a shame he does not see his daughter often, and yes that would be my concern to him about your fears. Talk to him about why he does not see her often. Good luck, and congratulations.

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