My Daughter Is Not Acting Her Age!

Alexis - posted on 04/24/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )




Recently, my daughter Angela has not been following my instructions. I know she is 14 years old and she may feel she needs some space, but I'm so concerned about her. Angela has been using a lot of disrespectful swear words and has been wearing G strings, and even v strings. As a trusting parent, I have let her go shopping with her friends. I didn't know it would get to this point where I found boob enhancement cream as well in her drawers. I don't know how to react, I know it is not okay but it was also not okay that I was snooping around in my daughters bedroom.


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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/25/2016




First, you are the parent. It is your responsibility to know what your kid is up to, so don't apologize for the bedroom cleaning and subsequent discoveries.

Second: Its time to have a talk with your kid, explain what your expectations of her are, and how she can meet those. Set consequences for undesired behaviour, and stick to them.

Raye - posted on 04/25/2016




It is a parent's prerogative to snoop in your daughters bedroom and to snoop in their phone, computer, everything else. You are the parent and you are responsible for her and teaching her how to be a confident responsible adult. She's 14!!! Breast enhancement creams and such may have plant hormones in them that could alter her development (and not in the way she wants). These products are not meant for children. She needs to be taught how beautiful she is without having to resort to enhancements or slutty clothes. Her use of swear words needs to be dealt with. What are the house rules? And what consequences do you have for bad behavior?

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