My daughter was on sex phone

Pattra - posted on 01/12/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )




My daughter is 15 and is an only child. We r Christians. She is a mama child and spends most of her time with me. I just happened to look into her phone and saw many contacts with boys (westerners)(so many of them). I looked further and saw records that she was sex phoning with them. What do u do? How do i take action?


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Sarah - posted on 01/12/2016




Absolutely take all access to the internet away. She may use it for specific period of time under supervision. The behavior she is engaging in now is incredibly dangerous and if her life were on the line you'd take drastic action. If her sexting is crossing continental borders, who knows who she s actually dealing with and these "westerners" may be selling her image. the other mothers are correct that she could be creating and transferring child pornography. At the very least, if she has a sext or lewd photo out there, it is there forever and could pop up at a job interview or college admission interview.

Michelle - posted on 01/12/2016




I agree with Shawnn, don't blame the "westerners". If you live in a "western" country then of course her contacts are going to be full of westerners.
Take her phone and internet access away until she learns that her behaviour is unacceptable.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/12/2016




Take away all phones and internet access unless you are in the same place, monitoring.

Trust me, though...It's not all "westerners" that have this behaviour. Middle eastern, asian, all cultures have the same problems regarding teens sexting others. Stop culture bashing, and address the behaviour, not the cultural backgrounds of the kids.

Raye - posted on 01/12/2016




You should always monitor your child's phone, tablet, and computer usage. Let her know that her behavior is unacceptable. Take away her phone and keep taking away privileges until she "understands" it's wrong. If she sends any of these boys a naked pic of herself that is child porn and could land her in jail for distribution and her BF in jail for possession. She should also know that nothing like that is private. These boys could share with their friends and she could be humiliated. Have the sex talk with her and tell her of the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy, etc. She thinks is all in good fun, but really it could affect her for her entire life.

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