my ex bf and i are doing apaternity test. i was with only him , it pisses me off. no trust. im grown woman. married for 12 yrs. husband cheated. i think thisviscstupid hevhasvnot been in my baby life all year. but now he states he wants ???? i dont even know.

Vanessa - posted on 11/08/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




Something is up, he is supposed to be a pastor at our church . Im very confused and hurt not to mention bitter.


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Amy - posted on 11/08/2013




I don't know why you are so upset that he wants a paternity test, I know you feel like he should just trust you but I'm assuming trust may have been an issue at one point since he is an ex. Are you a member of the church where he's a pastor if so he may have violated some code of ethics.

Tracy - posted on 11/08/2013




This is a unhealthy relationship and you need to talk to a older person with wisdom you can trust. This pastor needs to definitely be sat down until he get his personal life together. You need to establish paternity and think of this is taking care of business for you child. No time for being week and allowing you personals feeling get in the way of taking care of bussiness.

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