my husband is a vetaran pill addict i dnt know what to do

Van - posted on 05/01/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




I have been married for 7 yrs I have 6 children n 1 on the way. my husband is addicted to pain killers n marijuana he lies a lot n I have gone tru so much with him to try to help him I dnt know what to do any more he comes from a family full of drug abusers n he was on crack for plenty of years I helped him get off of that but it seem that he gets off of one thing n picks up another. I dnt know whether to leave him (which I have done twice before but came back to help him again I do love him) or divorce him do I stay n continue to help him do I brake up my family what do I do?? as I sit here n wonder how to help him I feel like im stuck


Sarah - posted on 05/01/2015




He has to want to change and it sounds like he does not want to. You are trying to change him and that is not going to work. He is who he is and who he is being. Now you have to decide if this is the person you want to be with WITH OUT TRYING TO CHANG HIM. If it is not then you need to change you situation NOT HIM.

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